According to the Federal Child Abuse Prevention and Treatment Act, child abuse and minimum, is defined as any recent act of failure to act on the part of a parent or caretaker which results in death, series physical or emotional harm, sexual abuse or exploitation. To most of humans it is simply one of the most unspeakable crimes imaginable. Most recently we have a society felt that betrayal by the occurrence at Penn State University. So many people’s lives were affected by the action of one man and many were left wondering how it went on for so long. So how do we stop it. What signs should we look for when it comes to abuse? How can we protect ourselves and each other to ensure abuse and pedophile do not occur? We may not be able to stop it completely, but we can be aware and educated.
Firstly, we must recognize the victim. According to Clinical Social Worker and Therapist Lori Malazich, child sexual abuse exists in children of all ages male and females and in all cultures. Malazich has not seen a pattern in her patient when it comes to age. Behavior or gender of the abuse victims one third of females and one fifth of males will be sexually assaulted by the time they are 18 years old Malazich set one of those unfortunate victims was Justin leader was just five years old when a babysitter older brother sorry to sexually abuse him the abuse continue to occur on and off for a year with later turning no one until he was 12 years old I was told that if I told anyone I will get in trouble later said but who would do such a whole thing to an innocent and naive child according to Malazich predators of abuse can be anyone but in her experience the Predator has no I’m the victim over 90% of the time predators are often times someone who are close to the child or family most Predators on meal in my experience I can only think of a few cases when the Predator has been a stranger Malazich said stating there is an assumption that strangers abused children however Research indicates otherwise of signs to indicate a child has been sexually abused many times suffer in silence as was the case of leader in most cases there are no physical findings of sexual abuse in a child and suffering from painful urination, bleeding from the genitals, anus, or mouth, and or wedding or soling accidents not related to toilet training a child should be seen by a trained medical doctor Malazich set.
Malazich are the behavior signs could indicate sleep disturbance, changing eating habits, mood swings, sexualize play, sexualized language and knowledge inappropriate 4AGE, and a new or sudden fear of a place or person. Adolescents can exhibit behaviors such as self-injury, poor hygiene, depression, anxiety, drugs and alcohol.
Because of the abuse, and individual can suffer from a variety of long-term effects. Children may be confused as to why the abuse has happened to them, accusing them to form disorder thoughts that are over personalized, resulting in acceptance responsibility for the abuse. Some victims have been told by the Predator the abuse is their fault. Some children feel they should have stopped the abuse. It is important to correct these personalized disorders, Malazich said. This abuse is evident in leaders’ case who attest to a feeling of guilt over the events and having significant insecurities as a result. It helps elicit dysfunctional thoughts the child may have regarding the trauma. Correcting these disordered and unhelpful thoughts now, versus later, can help decrease symptoms and allow children to have healthy adult relationships later in life, Malazich said.
It is without question abuse of any kind is a heinous and inexcusable act, but it does not need to define the individual for the rest of their lives. Leader, not 29 years old, is a prime example of how a victim can move forward. The successful business developer has used the event to push himself to work hard and overcome doubts about his identity leader also looks to help others who have been silenced by abuse.
If you or someone you know needs help regarding child abuse, please call the childhelp national Abuse Hotline App 1-800-for-a-child (1-800-422-4453) or go to http://www.chiledhelp.org. All calls are anonymous or confidential.